[00:00.00]本字幕由TME AI技术生成 [00:00.41]And when i talk about students [00:02.35]Needing to take responsibility for their education [00:04.93]I want you all to know that [00:06.11]I'm speaking from my own personal life experience like mbbrea growing up [00:11.53]I considered myself pretty lucky [00:13.97]Even though my parents didn't have a lot of money [00:15.91]They never went to college themselves they had an unwavering belief in the power of education [00:24.27]So they always pushed me and my brothers to do whatever it took to succeed in school [00:30.07]So when it came time for me to go to high school [00:33.94]They encourage me to enroll in one of the best schools in chicago [00:39.20]It was a school a lot like this one [00:41.26]And listening to embarra story was so similar [00:43.92]Because my school was way across the other side of the city [00:48.02]From where i lived so at six [00:50.34]I am every morning i had to get on a city bus and write for an hour sometimes more just to get to school [00:59.05]And i was willing to do that [01:00.59]Because i was willing to do whatever it took for me to go to college [01:04.07]I set my site tie ii decided that i was on to princeton [01:10.25]But i quickly realized that for me a kid [01:13.73]Like me getting into prinstwwasn't just onna happen on its own [01:18.85]I went to a great school school at my school [01:20.95]School had so many kids [01:22.01]So few [01:22.39]Guids councl [01:23.27]They were dealing with hundreds of students [01:25.98]So they had always have much time to help me personally get my applications together [01:31.28]Plus i know i couldn't afford to go on a bunch of college visits [01:36.46]I couldn't hire a personal tutor ii couldn't enroll in sat prep classes [01:42.06]We didn't have money [01:43.98]And then yet this some of my teachers straight up told me [01:49.50]That i was setting my sights too high [01:53.16]They told me [01:53.82]I was never going to get into a school [01:56.08]I princehim [01:57.44]And i still hear that dout ring ing in my head [02:02.09]So it was clear to me [02:03.45]That nobody was going to take my hand and lead me to where i needed to go [02:10.15]Instead it was gonnbe up to me to reach my goal [02:15.43]I would have to chart my own course [02:18.34]And i knew that the first thing i needed to do [02:20.36]Was have the strongest academic record possible [02:23.72]So i worked hard to get the best grades i could in all of my classes [02:28.66]I got involved in leadership opportunities in school [02:31.24]Where i developed relationships with some of my teachers and administrators [02:36.04]I knew i needed to present very solid and thoughtful college application [02:41.28]So i stayed up late [02:42.84]Got aa lly in the morning to work on my essays and personal statements [02:47.32]I knew my parents would not be able to pay for all of my tuition [02:51.92]So i made sure that i applied for financial a that fast perform was my best friend [02:56.84]I knew the deadlines [02:58.40]Everything most importantly [03:02.28]When i encountered oubtters [03:04.80]When people told me [03:06.04]That i wasn't going to cut it and let that stop me in fact [03:11.58]I did the opposite [03:13.18]I use that negativity to fuel me [03:16.60]To keep me going [03:18.32]And at the end i got in to princeton [03:20.50]And i was one of the proud st days of my life [03:24.14]But getting in to princeton was only the beginning graduating from princeton was my ultimate goal [03:32.87]So i'd start all over again developing an executing a plan that would lead me to my goal [03:40.31]And of course i struggle a little bit [03:43.27]I had to work hard again to find a base of friends and build a community of support for myself in this iv league university [03:51.17]I remember as a freshmman am mistakenly rolled into a class [03:57.01]That was met for juniors and seniors [04:00.43]And there were times when i felt like i could barely keep my head above water [04:05.89]Water [04:06.13]But through it all i kept that college diploma as my north star and four years later i reach that goal [04:14.03]And then i went on to build a life [04:15.59]I never could have imagined from myself [04:17.81]I went to law school became a lawyer [04:20.49]Have been a vice president for a hospital [04:22.33]I've been the head of a nonprofit organization [04:25.01]And i am here today [04:26.25]Because i want you to know that my story can be your story [04:32.47]The details might be little different [04:34.09]But let me tell you so many of the challenges and the triumph will be just the same [04:42.15]You might be dreaming of becoming a doctor [04:44.35]A teacher may be a mechanic or a software designer [04:48.03]Or you might not know what you want to do right now [04:51.67]And that's fine [04:54.01]But no matter what path you choose [04:56.13]No matter what dreams you have [04:58.49]You have got to do [04:59.71]Whatever it takes to continue your education after high school again [05:04.93]Whether that's going to community college [05:06.77]Getting a technical certificate or completing a training opportunity or go on off to a four year college [05:13.80]And once you've completed your education [05:16.32]You will have the foundation [05:18.36]You need to build a successful life [05:22.10]That's how me [05:22.98]That's how mebara [05:24.56]That's how so many other students have overcome adversities to reach our goals