[00:00.00]本字幕由TME AI技术生成 [00:00.53]And when i talk about students [00:02.47]Needing to take responsibility for their education [00:05.05]I want want you all to know that [00:06.49]I'm speaking from my perpersonal life experience like monmbara growing up [00:11.65]I considered myself pretty lucky [00:14.07]Even though my parents didn't have a lot of money [00:16.01]They never went to college themselves they had an unwaivering beliein the power of education [00:24.39]So they always pushed me and my brothers to do whatever it took to succeed in school [00:30.19]So when it came time for me to go to high school [00:34.03]They encourage me to enroll in one of the best schools in chicago [00:39.31]It was a school a lot like this one [00:41.39]And listening to embarra story was so similar [00:44.01]Because my school was way across the other side of the city [00:48.13]From where i lived so at six [00:50.45]Six am every morning i had get on a city bus [00:54.22]And write for an hour sometimes more just to get to school [00:59.14]And i was willing to do that [01:00.70]Because i was willing to do whatever it took for me to go to college [01:04.12]I set my sight eei decided i was going on to princeton [01:10.35]But i quickly realize that for me a kid [01:13.49]Like me getting in into princewasn't n't just going to happen on its own say i went to a great school [01:20.20]But at my school we had so many kids so few guids council [01:23.38]They were dealing with hundreds of students [01:25.94]So they had always have much time to help me personally get my applications together [01:31.14]Plus i know i coulldn't ford to go on a bununch of college visits [01:37.73]I couldn't hire a personal tutor ii couldn't enroll in sa t prep classes [01:42.45]We didn't have money [01:44.23]And then yet this some of my teachers straight up told me [01:49.59]That i was setting my sight's too high [01:53.27]They told me [01:53.95]I was never going to get into a school [01:56.17]I princeton [01:57.63]And i still hear that doubt ring and in my head [02:02.73]So it was clear to me [02:04.59]That nobody was going to take my hand and lead me to where i needed to go [02:11.89]Instead it was gonnbe up to me to reach my goal [02:15.63]I would have to chart my own course [02:18.46]And i knew that the first thing i needed to do [02:20.46]Was have the strongest academic record possible [02:23.64]So i worked hard to get the best grades i could in all of my classes [02:28.72]I got involved in leadership opportunities in school [02:31.28]Where i developed close relationships with some of my teachers and administrators [02:36.16]I knew i needed to present very solid and thoughtful college application [02:41.40]So i stayed up late [02:42.98]Got a brlly in the morning to work on my essays and personal statements [02:47.42]I knew my parents would not be able to pay for all of my tuition [02:52.04]So i made sure that i applied for financial [02:54.78]A that fast perform was my best friend [02:56.96]I knew the deadlines [02:58.50]Everything most importantly [03:02.40]When i encountered oubtters [03:04.92]When people told me [03:06.16]That i wasn't going to cut it [03:08.93]And let that stop me in fact [03:11.73]I did the opposite [03:13.31]I use that negativity to fuel me [03:16.75]To keep me going [03:18.45]And at the end i got into princeton [03:20.63]And i was one of the proud ous days of my life [03:22.75]But getting in to princeton was only the beginning graduating from princeton was my ultimate goal [03:32.98]So i'd start all over again developing an executing a plan that would lead me to my goal [03:40.40]And of course i struggle a little bit [03:43.37]I had to work hard again to find a base of friends and build a community of support for myself in this ivy league university [03:52.49]I remember as a freshman [03:53.99]I mistakenly rolled into a class [03:57.13]That was met for juniors and seniors [04:00.97]And there were times when i felt like i could barely keep my head above water [04:05.97]But through it all i kept that college diploma as my north star and four years later i reach that goal [04:14.10]And then i went on to build a life [04:15.68]I never could have imagined from myself [04:17.82]I went to law school became a lawyer [04:20.46]Have been a vice president for a hospital [04:22.42]I've been the head of a nonprofit organization [04:25.10]And i am here today [04:26.28]Because i want you to know that my story can be your story [04:32.63]The details might be a different [04:35.41]But let me tell you so many of the challenges and the triumph will be be the same you [04:42.37]You might be dreaming [04:43.35]Becoming a doctor [04:44.43]A teacher may be a mechanic or a software designer [04:48.15]Or you might not know what you want to do right now [04:51.90]And that's fine [04:54.04]But no matter what path you choose [04:56.24]No matter what dreams [04:57.46]You have [04:58.54]You have got to do [04:59.78]Whatever it takes to continue your education after high school again [05:05.08]Whether that's going to community college [05:06.92]Getting a technical certificate or completing a training opportunity or go on off to for your college [05:13.80]And once youyou've compleyour education [05:16.36]You will have the foundation [05:18.40]You need to build a successful life [05:22.31]That's how me [05:23.11]That's how manbara [05:24.71]That's how [05:25.23]So many other students have overcome adversities to reach our goals